tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post8399177933396871783..comments2023-08-04T06:28:03.551-06:00Comments on (un)Scripted Sexuality: Still not queer enoughSasha Sapphohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05400657273516424091noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-28367178952799250902008-06-25T06:47:00.000-06:002008-06-25T06:47:00.000-06:00I think that woman asked you a really rude questio...I think that woman asked you a really rude question. If she was asking bc she was interested, she really should have used the word queer, not gay. I don't date guys at all, and I don't really identify as gay. <BR/><BR/>When you honestly responded to her question, her weird reaction of disappointment or thinking you weren't queer enough or whatever was really inappropriate.<BR/><BR/>I've been in the same situation for as long as I can remember. Especially back when I first started going to dyke bars, (in the mid 90s), feminine queer girls were few an far between so everyone assumed I was straight. It sucked.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-16007590131145950642008-06-24T23:16:00.000-06:002008-06-24T23:16:00.000-06:00I totally feel you.Spending two years trying to ex...I totally feel you.<BR/><BR/>Spending two years trying to explain "pansexual" and then being snubbed by both the queers and the straights?<BR/><BR/>Yeah.<BR/><BR/>Now I identify as "queer." It *should* cover all the bases, but as long as there are "gold star/5 star" lesbians, and such, we'll still have that "oh, bisexuality is a less level than LESBIAN!"<BR/><BR/>I'm really excited to be writing for this new advice column at thelesbianlifestyle.com, because as a non-lesbian (queer, dyke, whatever), I feel I can infiltrate, and hopefully get people thinking more about fluid identities and sexuality.Essin' Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17376507927599806808noreply@blogger.com