tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post7657469480866793100..comments2023-08-04T06:28:03.551-06:00Comments on (un)Scripted Sexuality: Love and non-monogamy.Sasha Sapphohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05400657273516424091noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-23872050453210554312009-04-08T21:31:00.000-06:002009-04-08T21:31:00.000-06:00I totally understand what you are saying and wish ...I totally understand what you are saying and wish that i wasnt so selfish or jealous. Im messing around with a guy who has a kid and a girlfriend. She knows about him not being a monogamous person and she's ok with it, for the most part.<BR/> He says he loves me and i love him too. I just dont think, i can get past the fact that when hes not with me, he could possibly be with some other girl.gyngernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-15256004138775670562009-03-17T21:16:00.000-06:002009-03-17T21:16:00.000-06:00A book could be written in response to this wonder...A book could be written in response to this wonderfully positive post. But I will spare you that and limit myself to a couple of observations:<BR/><BR/>Many people wrap up their egos in their relationships. This is the root of jealousy, I think: the fear that someone else will devastate you by depriving you of the lover that boosts your ego.<BR/><BR/>You seem to be refreshingly free of that. In fact, you seem less comfortable with the lover who tries to build you up (Jacob) than with the lover who is more of an equal partner (Friend).<BR/><BR/>If your ego is not dependent on being the only person, or even the primary person, your lover has sex with, you have the right stuff to be a successful polyamorist. May you continue to find others with the same healthy outlook.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-33217418132182103012009-03-17T01:15:00.000-06:002009-03-17T01:15:00.000-06:00I have never for a second gotten the impression t...I have never for a second gotten the impression that you viewed love and non-monogamy are mutually exclusive.<BR/><BR/>I adore this post though - it has such power and experience in it. Owning the relationships you have, your own paths to happiness, and then adding in a wonderful song? <BR/><BR/>Pretty fantastic. I agree with you about the love thing to... it just works for some people. Some people can unjealously spread it all around to many people without shorting anyone. It's beautiful.Amaltheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10454407895127778441noreply@blogger.com