tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post4785394417834308500..comments2023-08-04T06:28:03.551-06:00Comments on (un)Scripted Sexuality: Closure.Sasha Sapphohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05400657273516424091noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-76518302995456077912008-09-30T14:44:00.000-06:002008-09-30T14:44:00.000-06:00Oh my darling, we forgive too often, those of us w...Oh my darling, we forgive too often, those of us who have been broken and used and yet still choose to believe in love and beauty and hope and ideals... but hopefully for our sake we don't forget. I felt this, every word, in a place deep inside that people created in my past with their ugly words and deeds and bruises. You're right to keep those memories to protect yourself. There are certain people that don't deserve YOU in any way in their lives. My first boyfriend ended up being like this, because he believed he could manipulate me to the end. My father was one of these people. For a time my grandfather was. Officechick E is a lesser version of it as well. <BR/><BR/>I know when I shut people out I feel unfair..I hope that you don't even a little bit in this case. That you don't feel guilty for hating him. I always want to keep the hope and give people another chance. The right thing to do for you is clearly to keep your own strength, keep this person capable of undermining it away from you, and continue to love yourself and celebrate your rejection of abuse.<BR/><BR/>I know you know this, and I'm probably stating the obvious. I can't help it when you manage to strike a chord with me all over again from across the waters, lol. I swear I would think I was inventing this connection if you didn't agree with me that the parallels are always there.<BR/><BR/>I can't wait to see you celebrate and share your physical beauty with us (that this asshole ex of yours rejected) for HNT!Amaltheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10454407895127778441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-62746412756235335392008-09-30T11:02:00.000-06:002008-09-30T11:02:00.000-06:00Wow. What a moving letter.It's very therapeutic to...Wow. What a moving letter.<BR/><BR/>It's very therapeutic to write things like that and I hope it made you feel better. Unfortunately time does have a habit of making us forget the bad and remember the good - you're wise to remember (just so you'll never let anybody treat you like that again.)Roland Hulmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08979437320446956987noreply@blogger.com