tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post3967881587234250112..comments2023-08-04T06:28:03.551-06:00Comments on (un)Scripted Sexuality: trust, abuse, and pleasure.Sasha Sapphohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05400657273516424091noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-18377690780964748982008-06-11T02:45:00.000-06:002008-06-11T02:45:00.000-06:00Hey sunshine - Ain't nothin' wrong with liking a l...Hey sunshine - <BR/><BR/>Ain't nothin' wrong with liking a little (or a lot!) of pain, being told what to do, held down, etc.<BR/><BR/>I just ask one thing of you; now that you *know* that's what you like, please be super careful, and get a little bit of negotiation/safeword in before the trail of clothes happens. It can be as simple as "my safeword is red" or "I like doing _____, _______ and _____, but my hard limit is _______." Just in the middle of conversation. Or you can try to be a coy Femme like me (I = fail), and do the whole "So, what are you into?" spiel, and then they're supposed to ask what YOU'RE into, and voila.<BR/><BR/>It's just that, especially as a survivor (and I know!), a slap across the face might be fine, but what happens when one of the next one takes it a step in a different direction, and you end up frozen, or in a heap, crying? Just please be careful, ok sweetie? I have so many books for you to borrow when I get home at the end of the month. You better be finding me some hot dykes/trans guys :)<BR/><BR/>Oh! Did I tell you, I think I'm going to try and pro-domme. Wanna be my test subject? :)Essin' Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17376507927599806808noreply@blogger.com