tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post366150388044410266..comments2023-08-04T06:28:03.551-06:00Comments on (un)Scripted Sexuality: my reputation...Sasha Sapphohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05400657273516424091noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-36772725806411739552009-01-10T23:15:00.000-07:002009-01-10T23:15:00.000-07:00Perhaps in the case of non-boyfriend he didn't wan...Perhaps in the case of non-boyfriend he didn't want to have to disappoint you at the non-resumption of the sexual part of your friendship either? Sometimes it's a hard door to close. Perhaps he wasn't sure he could resist you, and needed to know you wouldn't tempt him? <BR/><BR/>Though I must say the comments from everyone else are ridiculous. As if you can't be trusted to leave someone's relationship alone... I think people see pursuing your desires as selfish in a negative way in a woman. And in doing so then make assumptions about you that your needs/wants would come before your friends'. RUDE, uncalled for, and bleh. You deserve to not be felt of that way, sorry sweetums.Amaltheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10454407895127778441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-90931210601251482122008-12-27T21:34:00.000-07:002008-12-27T21:34:00.000-07:00It amazes me how strong the pairing up paradigm is...It amazes me how strong the pairing up paradigm is in society. For purposes of procreation, that makes sense, but why is it, in the realm of recreational sex, that a woman who seeks nothing more than to fulfill her desires is considered less worthy than one whose amorous activities are centered on some sort of semi-permanent pairing up?<BR/><BR/>I think one reason is that most people have extremely fragile egos, but does anyone have other theories?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-60354712552364604902008-12-25T11:00:00.000-07:002008-12-25T11:00:00.000-07:00Hun people are a bitch, half of the time people ar...Hun people are a bitch, half of the time people are their to push us face first into the mud, and the other half will be there to help you get up. The big thing wioth this is that a lot of the time we end up pushing people into the mud while where trying to help others up (or not end up in the mud in the first place). What I'm trying to say is that no matter how hard we work and as much as we achive people will always think less of you (at least thats all we hear) The thing is is that you should always be proud of who you are (which you are (a great thing few people ever have)) the reason for this is because nobody Truely knows who you are but you. So in conclusion shame on all of us who love eachother and don't provide positive reinforcement. You know where you sit with me and that will never change<BR/><BR/>~MEnlightenment is Self Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17821686267850890874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-64989475372621993322008-12-24T14:49:00.000-07:002008-12-24T14:49:00.000-07:00I'm sorry if I said it that way, sweetie. I didn't...I'm sorry if I said it that way, sweetie. I didn't mean it to come out like that. :( ~CKAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-77395470107620435292008-12-24T12:01:00.000-07:002008-12-24T12:01:00.000-07:00"It's okay to be a slut, as long as you own it."It..."It's okay to be a slut, as long as you own it."<BR/><BR/>It was an ex-girlfriend who said that to me, and I think it was one of the wisest things I'd ever heard.<BR/><BR/>I think people are perhaps intimidated by women who are in control of their own sexuality. Do rest assured that there are some of out there who do 'get it' and think it's awesome. <BR/><BR/>So, I'm sorry you're having a sucky time over it all. I just wrote an article about how, even forty years after the 'sexual revolution' we're kind of still WAY behind where we ought to be in realizing that women aren't relegated into 'good girls' and 'ravenous slut monsters.' <BR/><BR/>From reading your whole blog, I think the way you conduct your sex life seems like the way you conduct the rest of your life - outspoken, but true to yourself.<BR/><BR/>And that's the most important thing of all.<BR/><BR/>You rock!Roland Hulmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08979437320446956987noreply@blogger.com