tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post1059985363083336247..comments2023-08-04T06:28:03.551-06:00Comments on (un)Scripted Sexuality: The end of Edward.Sasha Sapphohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05400657273516424091noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-88437242645220732292009-03-30T20:08:00.000-06:002009-03-30T20:08:00.000-06:00It took me a long time to get through that, just b...It took me a long time to get through that, just because it was so intense (and I've performed just as jackass type things as Edward.)<BR/><BR/>I don't know how to describe his behavior. Diva. Drama queen. Cry for attention. Whatever it was, it was totally unacceptable and I commend you for walking away from that.<BR/><BR/>Sadly, I seem to remember being five years (at least) behind all the women in my life when I was your (Edwards) age and I doubt he's any difference. You deserve a grown up, you deserve more, but most of all you don't deserve to be spoken to like that.Champagne and Benzedrinehttp://champagneandbenzedrine.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-46564517985553717122009-03-29T07:25:00.000-06:002009-03-29T07:25:00.000-06:00Ugh this brings up such deja vu, but I can't place...Ugh this brings up such deja vu, but I can't place who or when or why. I just know how awful it is to deal with this kind of person. <BR/><BR/>Seriously, reading this train wreck of an immature childish meltdown I just wanted to shake Edward like a snowglobe. You really must have cared for him to have stuck around in the conversation which I know pissed you off. <BR/><BR/>Glad you had some of your good friends to verbally soothe you from this and salve your frayed nerves that night.Dangerous Lillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06799721415625090835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-43294705991891264722009-03-28T22:50:00.000-06:002009-03-28T22:50:00.000-06:00PS - If shaking you would help, I would virtually ...PS - If shaking you would help, I would virtually be doing so right now. <BR/><BR/>You are clearly loved more than you know - and imminently deserving. Grab that kernel of belief in this, shove it in some fertile mind soul - give it some sun and water and care. Let it grow. :)Amaltheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10454407895127778441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288035126856205400.post-61949090003323852552009-03-28T22:48:00.000-06:002009-03-28T22:48:00.000-06:00This read so much like my 'break ups' with the men...This read so much like my 'break ups' with the men in my past who have sought to control my emotions and to control me in some way as well. All of it smacks of him being overly dramatic and hideously manipulative. Anyone who could turn on you and call you those things, say those things to you - doesn't deserve a thimbleful of your time, attention, and especially of your love.<BR/><BR/>THAT guy is always much more concerned with his own ego and himself than he actually is with you. You do have something magic, I am sure, but it was likely much more about him wanting to leash it and own it and trot it out as his own tame thing than about being good for you and being a vehicle for your combined happiness - which is well... complete fucking shit. Complete selfish manipulative closed minded and in his case heteroexaltedmasculine SHIT.<BR/><BR/>All I really saw was ME ME ME ME ME, WAAAAH ME ME ME while he mindlessly ignored your attempts at intelligence and adult reasoning. <BR/><BR/>I'm so proud of you for walking away. I think in reality you took on more guilt and pain than you ever deserved even for a second in this situation. Sister of my mind... I do know why. Because when we're aware of our failings (and you continue to believe you fail at being loved/being in relationships - something I reserve judgment on but personally don't believe - I just think you don't follow his rules on how you should handle those things) we tend to believe in our own failure enough to create it in our mind where no actual failing existed. Please be wary of that trap, my darling Sasha.<BR/><BR/>He 'broke' himself by wanting you to be his fantasy of a pet, tame, sex object to use at his will and having to come to terms with the death of that dream.<BR/><BR/>I wub you. Please if this ever happens again and you need someone and can't find your first choices - think of me. I hurt knowing you hurt.Amaltheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10454407895127778441noreply@blogger.com